The first step you have to take, in order to get back your ex boyfriend is to identify the causes of the break up in the first place and rectify the causes of the failure. This first step will help in eliminating the tension and stress brought about as a result of the break up.
Certainly, relationship can not break up without a cause, so if your boyfriend left you, it is probably due to either of these two reasons, the relationship was becoming stale or claustrophobic. Firstly, the relationship was becoming stale because there was not enough of you in it (this means that you did not pay enough attention to your boyfriend) or secondly, the relationship was getting too claustrophobic because there was too much of you in it (this means that you might have insisted on being with your boyfriend all the time and did not allow him any space or time to himself).
So you have to examine the whole situation that lead to the break up in the first place and identify, which of these two lead to the break up, once you identify the cause, you have to act accordingly by taking proper action and decision towards rectifying the causes of the break up.
So, you have to start examining yourself, if there is something that you did or fell to do, that lead to the break up. Try to identify those things, you think are your fault and those you think are not your fault. Among these your faults, there are the ones that are controllable and the ones that are uncontrollable (meaning you cannot change them). Focus your energy, on those faults of yours, which you can control and try to make amend where necessary. And perhaps, haven done these, look for ways of overcoming or minimizing those faults, you classified as uncontrollable.
If you try your best to implement the suggestions provided in this article, then you stand a very good chance of getting back together with your ex boyfriend.
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